Be a leader in your own life not a victim of your own goals

There are certain times in life where we need to put down the book, stop writing and JUST LIVE LIFE.
It is good to keep fresh so that you do not get burned out. I did not say go on a vacation, if you are like me you can't afford (both money and time) to have one but you can look around your life and take in new outlook. 

A wise man once told me some advise before I was married, "Never chase after girls, worry about your life and get your ducks in a row so that they will chase after you. Be a leader not a follower." 

I love this advise because how many times are we chasing after things; a job, a spouse, a goal, a house, a grade and so on? We need to stop chasing after our dreams and start leading them. How do you lead your dreams? If you want to lead them you are going to need to have the mindset that you are leading your dreams into war. The best way to do this is to have your dreams work together or said another way, consolidate your tasks. Multitasking is trying to do two things at the same time and is way too much work. Instead try consolidating, it is combining your dreams and goals so that they build off of each other.   

The take home message:
Act of Faith, don't react on fear. Have just a little more faith than fear. Recognize trials as the blessings that they are.